JIANNY ADAMO, LMHC, LPC
FOUNDER, PSYCHOTHERAPIST & COACH
My passion to help create intimate, lifelong fulfilling marriages led me to earn a Masters of Arts degree in Counseling from Nyack College, NY where it combined psychological and spiritual theories to understanding humanity. Intimate relationships, although conflicted at times, are nature’s path to healing, personal growth and happiness. In many ways it’s a reflection of the love relationship God intends to have with us, a union where it’s safe to know and be known, love that transcends the individual, calling forth inner strength, purpose and vitality.
Nothing excites me more than to support you to move towards a rewarding life centered on freedom to love, ability to connect deeply and to live authentically.
FL – Licensed Mental Health Counselor
NJ – Licensed Professional Counselor
Masters of Arts in Counseling
Certified Relationship Coach
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Marriage and Couples Counseling
Grief and Loss
Anxiety & Fears
Life Transitions & Stress Management
Recovering From Narcissistic or Psychopathic Abuse
Christian / Spiritual Counseling
Se Habla Espanol
I’m grateful to be writing my first book:
Love Trauma: Seven Tango Lessons to Recovery from Emotionally and Sexually Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Psychopaths and Other Toxic People.
Love hinges on an honor system—personal accountability, integrity, a sense of dignity—that builds trust and protects the relationship. Psychopaths exploit our ability to love and our sense of dignity in their pursuit of money, sex, power and entertainment. For the victims caught in the web of lies and deception, the damage and trauma are real.
I began writing this book as I went through my own painful recovery from the trauma I personally experienced in the collision of love and abuse. Love Trauma celebrates the human spirit and our ability to transcend the evil we are faced with each day.
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Love Trauma by Jianny Adamo
I’m a family man, married for over 26 years. I came to Jianny in an emotionally broken down state. I had trouble with myself and in my marriage. In my first session, Jianny identified some things and in all honesty, turned my life around. With her help I was able to see some things I had totally missed. I was able to get myself going in a whole new healthy positive direction. Today, I’m emotionally stable and have a whole new direction, purpose to my life. I have a deep sense of gratitude toward life and I’m at peace with myself. Jianny is professional, caring, insightful and does great work. It’s so important to feel good emotionally and she is someone who can help. I highly recommend her to people of all walks of life, young, old, married or single.
Working with Jianny has been refreshing and helps me see things more clearly. Also, I am making many improvements working and learning through my hardships in resolving conflicts and core issues. I am very encouraged with the tools and the direction this counseling has helped me reach my heart’s desire. I cannot get that out of my head. These sessions have been very revealing to me, also without this counseling and my progress, I would not have been able to move on. I look forward to working with you on the next stages. Thanks, you are a blessing.
We came to Jianny one year ago in complete crisis mode! My husband was not initially even willing to talk to anyone because it seemed pointless to him! … Well, after about a month into seeing Jianny, my husband agreed to join us on a session! … It is now one year later and I can honestly say I have my life back! This was no easy feat, but through the help of Jianny, the exercises we did as a couple and her ability to make us interact in a way we never knew, we found the spark that brought us together almost 10 years ago.
Of all the things I’ve accomplished the last few years gaining inner peace/love and a better understanding of self are which I am most proud. Jianny guided/inspired me along that path. If you or someone you know is looking for something but you/they don’t know what it is, there’s a good chance it’s something inside yourself/themselves. I took back control of my mind, my heart, and my health. Jianny is a true leader, giver, and professional in her field whom I respect dearly and have already referred several of my friends!
Before working with Jianny I was a “hostage” mentally and physically to the point I wouldn’t leave the house. I felt like I had no “real” purpose to get dressed, put my best foot forward and leave. But since starting this work with Jianny that has changed. No one would know I exist in the world, if I don’t go out into the world and be seen, in order to “show up and be accounted for”. Thank you! I am very blessed and pleased to have had Jianny in my life walking with me on this journey.
I am so grateful that Jianny’s been in my life. I’ve grown and learned so much. Jianny helped me to assess the areas of my life that worked and did not work for me. I couldn’t express my feelings, and in turn, had a temper issue which claimed my marriage. She’s worked with me to teach me how to recognize what I’m really feeling and express myself honestly.
I’ve sat in sessions with her, when I was just so angry, frustrated and lost. We identified what was causing my feelings, realized how I could deal with these issues and move on, without an angry explosion. As time has gone on, I’ve been able to realize when these [triggering] situations arise, and deal with them before they bother me for days on end.
Working with Jianny has truly been a blessing for me. I would recommend working with her to anyone I know. I’ve truly learned to love my neighbor as well as myself and am confident in my ability to love.
I really needed and have benefit immensely from your counseling. You’ve illuminated the beginning of the path of my healing during the darkest days of my life. I just wanted to once again thank you for everything…including your understanding, your honesty, your guidance, your compassion, and your laughter. Somehow fate brought you into my life at just the right time…when I really needed it…and I can’t thank you enough for making yourself [available] and coming to my aid.
Jianny’s a miracle worker! We arrived with little hope in turning our marriage around. There were times I thought my husband would not return to therapy. But Jianny to help him to move through it until we found our way!!!
My husband and I started therapy with Jianny to help us cope with several life changing events that had occurred in recent years. Not only did she provide us with the tools and resources to successfully navigate those events but she got to the root of the issues that were creating our roadblocks. We set goals together as a family and individually. Before I knew it those goals were being accomplished and healing and confidence was building. I can’t express my gratitude enough to be in such a better place. I’m using those experiences to be a better person, wife, mother and friend. I had let go of so much baggage I literally have more energy, more love and more tolerance to give to myself and to my loved ones. It’s truly piece of mind to know where ever I’m living and in whatever state of mind I’m in that Jianny is only a phone call away. I can tap into her expertise wherever I am in life’s journey. For the first time in my life I LOVE the person I am today.