Couples Counseling and Coaching
Imagine ending the pain and suffering that comes from a lack of connection and understanding. Experiencing unconditional love for yourself and for your partner in a lasting union is possible. Get unstuck, move past the issues and find the spark again.
Support is available to help you recalibrate your union – find fulfillment, create balance and be happy. Whether, you choose relationship coaching, marriage counseling or opting for a couples intensive, our services are tailored to meet your needs and to achieving your personal and relationship goals. One or both members of the relationship can be coached or counseled.
When We Work Together, You Will Learn How To:
- Own your fulfillment and happiness
- Navigate successfully through emotional distance and emptiness
- Resolve anger and resentment
- Effectively communicate your needs, wants and feelings
- Resolve conflicts successfully without having to be right
- Resolve issues of infidelity and betrayal
- Rebuild trust and restore a sense of safety and security
- Harness closeness, affection and intimacy
- Ignite passion into your life and relationship
Our approach to relationship distress is based in the new science of love. Recent advances in neurology, the brain science, and research on relationship and marital satisfaction show that as social, relational beings our brains are hard-wired for a deep level of emotional attachment and intimacy. Our need for close, loving relationships is necessary and normal.
When our attachment needs – need for connection, affection, emotional support, and appreciation – go unmet, it creates distress. When we feel unappreciated, insecure, misunderstood, blamed, or abandoned we react – with anger, defensiveness, and distance. These reactions can be identified, understood, and unraveled. You can then learn a new way to respond to each other with understanding, appreciation and compassion.
Coaching and counseling services are available face to face, video calls and phone consultation.
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Counseling Clientele Testimonials
I’m a family man, married for over 26 years. I came to Jianny in an emotionally broken down state. I had trouble with myself and in my marriage. In my first session, Jianny identified some things and in all honesty, turned my life around. With her help I was able to see some things I had totally missed. I was able to get myself going in a whole new healthy positive direction. Today, I’m emotionally stable and have a whole new direction, purpose to my life. I have a deep sense of gratitude toward life and I’m at peace with myself. Jianny is professional, caring, insightful and does great work. It’s so important to feel good emotionally and she is someone who can help. I highly recommend her to people of all walks of life, young, old, married or single.
Working with Jianny has been refreshing and helps me see things more clearly. Also, I am making many improvements working and learning through my hardships in resolving conflicts and core issues. I am very encouraged with the tools and the direction this counseling has helped me reach my heart’s desire. I cannot get that out of my head. These sessions have been very revealing to me, also without this counseling and my progress, I would not have been able to move on. I look forward to working with you on the next stages. Thanks, you are a blessing.
We came to Jianny one year ago in complete crisis mode! My husband was not initially even willing to talk to anyone because it seemed pointless to him! … Well, after about a month into seeing Jianny, my husband agreed to join us on a session! … It is now one year later and I can honestly say I have my life back! This was no easy feat, but through the help of Jianny, the exercises we did as a couple and her ability to make us interact in a way we never knew, we found the spark that brought us together almost 10 years ago.
Of all the things I’ve accomplished the last few years gaining inner peace/love and a better understanding of self are which I am most proud. Jianny guided/inspired me along that path. If you or someone you know is looking for something but you/they don’t know what it is, there’s a good chance it’s something inside yourself/themselves. I took back control of my mind, my heart, and my health. Jianny is a true leader, giver, and professional in her field whom I respect dearly and have already referred several of my friends!
Before working with Jianny I was a “hostage” mentally and physically to the point I wouldn’t leave the house. I felt like I had no “real” purpose to get dressed, put my best foot forward and leave. But since starting this work with Jianny that has changed. No one would know I exist in the world, if I don’t go out into the world and be seen, in order to “show up and be accounted for”. Thank you! I am very blessed and pleased to have had Jianny in my life walking with me on this journey.
I am so grateful that Jianny’s been in my life. I’ve grown and learned so much. Jianny helped me to assess the areas of my life that worked and did not work for me. I couldn’t express my feelings, and in turn, had a temper issue which claimed my marriage. She’s worked with me to teach me how to recognize what I’m really feeling and express myself honestly.
I’ve sat in sessions with her, when I was just so angry, frustrated and lost. We identified what was causing my feelings, realized how I could deal with these issues and move on, without an angry explosion. As time has gone on, I’ve been able to realize when these [triggering] situations arise, and deal with them before they bother me for days on end.
Working with Jianny has truly been a blessing for me. I would recommend working with her to anyone I know. I’ve truly learned to love my neighbor as well as myself and am confident in my ability to love.
My husband and I started therapy with Jianny to help us cope with several life changing events that had occurred in recent years. Not only did she provide us with the tools and resources to successfully navigate those events but she got to the root of the issues that were creating our roadblocks. We set goals together as a family and individually. Before I knew it those goals were being accomplished and healing and confidence was building. I can’t express my gratitude enough to be in such a better place. I’m using those experiences to be a better person, wife, mother and friend. I had let go of so much baggage I literally have more energy, more love and more tolerance to give to myself and to my loved ones. It’s truly piece of mind to know where ever I’m living and in whatever state of mind I’m in that Jianny is only a phone call away. I can tap into her expertise wherever I am in life’s journey. For the first time in my life I LOVE the person I am today.