From Love Trauma To Fearless Love is a tale of emotional, spiritual, and sexual recovery from abuse at the hands of a predator. With the explosion of the #metoo movement, this book is especially relevant as From Love Trauma To Fearless Loveilluminates how calculating a narcissist can be and reveals profound truths about the gut-wrenching reality a woman faces when she unwittingly gets caught in a web of lies and deception. It also highlights the cycle of violence that is typical of sexual abuse for both men and women.
In From Love Trauma To Fearless Love, the protagonist Elena leaves her unhappy marriage and established personal and professional life to pursue an adventure. Vulnerable, she heads straight for the arms of Cesar, a psychopath. Their relationship plays out his fantasies while traumatizing Elena. Blindsided and broken, Elena is left to pick up the pieces while also unraveling a mystery from her past. In her darkest hours, Elena discovers the art of dancing the Argentine tango and brilliantly transforms betrayal into passion, powerlessness into fearlessness, and fear into faith.
The bookis divided into two sections. The first offers seven tango lessons, an allegorical teaching on the love between a man and a woman, contrasted by a corresponding stage of loving and leaving a narcissist.
Part Two provides psychological insights to aid in the healing journey. Throughout the book, the author identifies, explores, and explains types of abuse leading to love trauma, how to recognize the signs of narcissistic and psychopathic abuse, and how to survive and recover from the cruelty.
When trauma goes unhealed, it casts a shadow on our ability to love ourselves as well as anyone else. Recovering moves us to a worthwhile life, grounded in inner peace and joy. Whether you’re a man or a woman who’s been entrapped in a toxic relationship, may FromLove Trauma To Fearless Love light your passage out of the darkness, desperation, and chaos that resulted in loving a narcissist. You are never lost if you know where you are going: a journey to wholeness and Fearless Love.
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